Certain events force us to confront ourselves and our relationships with each other. The 21st century is certainly marked with many of these, both positive and negative. There are times when silence is required to enable us to experience, and think, and feel deeply. Later, we may be compelled to reflect on this process. That's what this page is about--reflections on times of deep searching. Answers are often elusive, but questions never are.
The Need for Contemplative Listening
True contemplative listening is a rare experience. Too often, so-called experts simply yell at and talk over others, refusing to so much as acknowledge the other's mere presence. If we have any hope for a more civil life, this must end. I explore different ways in which contemplative listening is necessary, and how it could be encouraged and nurtured, in a series of writings. The first, written with Chris, is in response to the 2016 election. The second explores the idea that contemplative listening must become a core outcome of college. The third, also with Chris, explores further the idea that contemplative listening is learned, and we must creative supportive ways for people to acquire it.
Spiritual Development
Philosophers and theologians have long discussed the search for meaning in life. In this chapter, I offer an adult developmental perspective on this search by following threads in theology, cognitive development, and personal relationships.